[N] Hey Woman, won’t it be Nice if you….#AtoZChallenge

Hey Woman…..won’t it be nice if you :

Do not strive to be a superwoman; Are you looking for praise when you do that?
Do not take over the entire responsibility of bringing up your children; Are you looking for leverage when you do that?
Do not make other women’s lives difficult; Are you trying to make yourself feel better?
Do not underplay your personality; Are you doing that to make others feel less threatened?

Hey Woman……won’t it be so much nicer if you :

Delegate the work that you have to do; it would be so much better for your well being.
Involve the father of your children in the day to day nitty gritties of child-rearing; instead of leverage you will be rewarded with love.
Help other women in whatever way you can; it would make the world a much better place to live in.
Let yourself be relaxed enough to behave naturally, letting your personality shine through; you will find the right kind of people enter your life.

And most importantly, won’t it be so much better if we treat others as persons & human beings first and than as women & men?

©April 2018 Sapna Dhyani

Author: Sapna Dhyani

I am Sapna Dhyani. I write about everything that crosses my mind. I write about life as I see it and like to infuse humour into my blogs. I belong to Dehradun but now live in a new city after every two years, being an army wife. This uprooting of base every couple of years, setting up a new home in a new place, meeting new people and forging new friendships, exploring new cities; all this ensures that I go through and am blessed with a myriad of experiences.

18 thoughts on “[N] Hey Woman, won’t it be Nice if you….#AtoZChallenge”

  1. Conversational tone of the poem is nice. I liked the entire poem,

    “Do not make other women’s lives difficult; Are you trying to make yourself feel better?”

    This resonated a lot with me.

    In an ideal world, we’d see people as just people.

    “And most importantly, won’t it be so much better if we treat others as persons & human beings first and than as women & men?”

    Do share your thoughts on my #BlogchatterAtoZ post for H:
    https://lonelycanopyblog.wordpress.com/2018/04/09/royal-hunting-lodge-kila-dalijoda/

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  2. Role of women is intrinsic in our culture. Elder women defined role of younger one in the family as well as outside in the world. Men have very little role in defining role of women. So, taking all responsibilities on herself is taught by elder women. However, somewhere women need to change her mindset and let allow other to share responsibilities. really nice article with buried issues raised softly.

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    1. Thank you Poonam. Your words are indeed true. It is firstly the women who need to be nicer and kinder to other women; starting with their own mothers, sisters, daughters, daughters in law, and so on. Life would be that much better and easy. Have a good day and thanks for stopping by.

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